Hard Choices

看這段影片的時候，想到一句話：
「 你若不想做，會找到一個藉口；你若想做，會找到一個方法。」




我也不禁回想起她跟我提分手時說過的，
她說我是她生命中重要的支柱之一，但她不得不放手，
畢竟兩個人對於未來的想望不同了，
提出分手她很難過，但說出來卻也讓她鬆了一口氣。
我想，這是她的hard choice吧。
而我呢，Who am I to be? 

11:43

When we choose between options that are on a par, we can do something really rather remarkable. We can put our very selves behind an option. Here's where I stand. Here's who I am. I am for banking. I am for chocolate donuts. This response in hard choices is a rational response, but it's not dictated by reasons given to us. Rather, it's supported by reasons created by us. When we create reasons for ourselves to become this kind of person rather than that, we wholeheartedly become the people that we are. You might say that we become the authors of our own lives.

12:33

So when we face hard choices, we shouldn't beat our head against a wall trying to figure out which alternative is better. There is no best alternative. Instead of looking for reasons out there, we should be looking for reasons in here: Who am I to be?