Be prepared to be amazed

前(?)女友總說我是conversation overer（對話終結者），
這個TED我該好好學學...

1. Don't multitask.
2. Don't pontificate.
3. Use open-ended questions.
4. Go with the flow.
5. If you don't know, say that you don't know. 
6. Don't equate your experience with theirs.
7. Try not to repeat yourself.
8. Stay out of the weeds.
9. Listen.
10. Be brief.